I just dont even know.?

Okay so me && this same *** boy. we've been together for a year but we've also been off & on for a yearr.&& I fell absolutley head over heels for this boy.&& then last friday he kept asking me if he could finger me & i kept saying no and asking why && then hes like " because i ******* love you babyy" and i was like no and he asked me why and i explained to him why i dont want to and it was family reason & stuff that happened to my mom. and hes like "shyann im not gonna because i can just tell on you face that you dont want to" then i asked if he was mad & hes all like "no im just disappointed". && then like an hour later he got out a condom and put it on his finger and then he just starts me after i kept telling him NO && TO STOP. but he wouldnt listen at alll.and get this so today in homeroom he flicked me off & called me a cheater all because i wouldnt give him a note to read. it was a personal note between me & one of my bestfriends that he didnt need to read. So now im just beginning to think that he doesnt even respect me enough to be his girlfriend. & honestly i dont want a boyfriend whos gonna treat me like crapp call me a ***** && a cheater and flick me off and flirt with other girls. Oh and listen to ths BS yesterday i had soccer practice and he did too and he PROMISED ME STRAIGHT TO MY FACE that he'd go to his practice to spend time with me because my team was gonna scrimage his. So then after school i called him to remind him to come to his soccer practice so we could hang out during the scrimage and then hes like "i wont forget baby i promise" now he got my hopes upp. and then he didnt even show up. && then i came to school and come to find out he was hanging out with a girl named aubrey whos my friend instead of spening time with his girlfriend. and when i askked him why he didnt come to his practice his excuse was he forgot. when i called him and reminded him. im beginning to think that hes not even worth it. but i need your opinions of what i should do. Please help me(: