Ladies (mainly college age): am I dateable?

Can I tell you, maybe this won't be a good answer, but when I first saw that you wrote that "everyone seems to be mentally 13 or 14" I almost died. I would explain that to other people and they would tell me I'm stupid. I totally agree. I think you are very datable, but if you're looking for the blonde cheerleader, you're not going to get her. But if you're looking for a sensible woman who is pretty inside and out, you will make her weak at the knees. Just make sure you keep asking girls out, even if you get no time after time after time because when I went to college last semester (I only went one), I never had a guy ask me out one time and I was so devastated and I felt so ugly because even though it was a small town, I know so many people who are now married. Not to mention the countless guys looking for advice because they can't get the blonde cheerleader and telling me there are no single or pretty girls when I was freaking sitting right there across from them.